• DBA DB8 DEBATE 1 - WORK SUCCESS & FAMILY HAPPINESS
    21/ 12/ 2021
    Following the 2021 Internal Talk path, Ex Libris Hermes started to conduct DBA DB8 debate program every Monday. The topic of the first debate is: you can't have both work success and family happiness at the same time. Success in a job is when you achieve something, a goal in your career. Happiness in family is when every member loves, sympathizes, shares and respects each other and is satisfied both physically and mentally. The opposing team argued that "successful work" and "happiness in the family" are two independent propositions, not that one thing leads to the other and vice versa. The team believes that one person may not have both, may have either, and may have both at the same time. If you try hard enough, one day you will achieve both. The agreeing team held that everything in life is interactive rather than independent, and that if you spend more time on this, you should save time on that. Even when we haven't successed yet but are still focusing on it, we've had to sacrifice a lot of our family time while the essence of family happiness is that we need to connect, we need to take care of each other. Family happiness is very when we don't have time to take care of each other. Will the family remain united to be called "happiness" until it is successful? Can you have both work success and family happiness at the same time?
  • INTERNAL TALK 19 - PERSPECTIVES - HUỲNH QUỐC HIỆP - 13th Dec, 2021
    14/ 12/ 2021
    Definiton of perspectives Factors impact on perspectives Perspectives' influence How to improve perspectives Q&A Perspective is literally the angle of the gaze that accepts the image of the object to the eye, guaranteeing the object's best form of authenticity. In our daily lives, we often use the figurative meaning of the word in the same sense as "view" "point of view," - a specific attitude or way in which a person thinks about something. Perspective is influenced by thoughts and emotions. Different perceptions and feelings will create different perspectives. Developing a perspective will help remove thinking barriers, be prepared to accept new things, recognize new values, increase empathy, and improve life. John Wolfgang von Goethe once said, "There is nothing insignificant in the world. It all depends on the perspective." To improve the perspective that requires more experience, detach yourself from the old perspective, the old experience. We have to review, evaluate everything from other perspectives, and make a more comprehensive observation to select the most appropriate perspective. “You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view” –Atticus, To kill the mocking bird (1960).
  • INTERNAL TALK 18 - SELF LOVE OR NARCISSISM - NGUYỄN THỊ THẢO - Dec 06th, 2021
    07/ 12/ 2021
    - Definition of self love and narcissism - Manifestations of self love and narcissism - Some examples of self love and narcissism - Q&A At the beginning of the talk, the speaker introduced the concept of self love and narcissism because she thought that there was ambiguity in the current use of “self love” to refer to a personality disorder. Self love simply means loving yourself, taking your health, needs, and happiness seriously. Narcissism is extreme interest in and admiration for your own physical appearance and/or your own abilities. Self-love people consider themselves equal to others, they are well aware of their own worth, do not need recognition or admiration from others. They are also aware of their own shortcomings and attempt to improve them. The narcissist believes that he is always superior to others, always believing that no rules are imposed on them. They always want to receive praise and admiration from those around them. They act like they don't have any faults, everything they do is right. There are some actions considered narcissism in life. The act of showing off, exaggerateing the importance of likes, comments, etc. in social network are some typical examples of narcissism. In Gone with the Wind, Scarlett O'Hara is also considered one of the classic characters with narcissism. She likes to be the center of parties, likes to be surrounded and praised by men. She also did not follow the laws, she defied the norms of a noble woman, she was willing to rob her sister's lover to get what she wanted.
  • "STOICISM IN THE COVID ERA" - THÁI BÌNH DƯƠNG UNIVERSITY "ACADEMIC CAFE" SEMINAR AT THƯ HIÊN DỊCH TRƯỜNG
    02/ 12/ 2021
    In early October this year, thousands of people left Ho Chi Minh City for their hometowns in the south eastern and western provinces, causing overnight congestion, as the local government eased the lockdown after more than two months of implementing Covid-19 preventation measures. How many people repatriated? Who were they and what were they doing in this city? What kind of situation had they been in that they just “went home first and dealt with the fallout later” despite the authorities' recommendation to stay? In the first part, speaker Nguyen Duc Loc gave audience a sociological description of the "vulnerable group of people,” that is, most of those who left the city temporarily to evade the pandemic on the night of early October. This group was formed quickly after the 1986 Open-door policy from a large number of people moving from rural areas to the City in search of jobs and opportunities for change. According to the researchers' calculations, the group's annual remittances amounted to $6 billion, which is no less than the annual remittances that community of expatriates sent home to relatives. Still do they have to live in narrow urban spaces, work in relatively precarious conditions, be in a state of alienation/estrangement, and without cultural life. The speaker provided relatively comprehensive data on this group in Vietnamese urban areas, putting the Vietnamese situation in the context of economic paradigm shift with the rise of neo-liberalism in the world in the 70s and 80s. Though being just scientifically descriptive, the accurate data inevitably reminded listeners of Herbert Marcuse's "one-dimensional man" critique of the eponymous work published in 1964 in the United States, as well as Marxist ways of addressing the issues of poverty, the impoverishment of the working class, of the proletariat in 19th century in European cities under the influence of industrialization and modernization. In the second part, the speaker Dinh Hong Phuc presented an overview of the ancient stoicism school. This school was prevailing more than 2,000 years ago and also witnessed a terrible pandemic at that time. Stoics considered philosophy as action, and focused their thoughts on "good way of life." They continued to develop the subjects of logic, ethics, and physics of the Greek tradition, and had various ideas when they combined them with philosophy to form a unified knowledge-practice genre. The practical teachings of Stoicism on emotional control, virtue development, and accurate judgement are practical lessons in manners in life, especially in 'emergency' and unusual social situations such as the pandemic. The most important lesson from them is: there are things outside that we can't affect, and there are things inside that we can affect. Just focus on the latter, such as our feelings, judgements, and actions. People often suffer much more in imagination than in reality. This lesson must be very helpful when people were faced with an epidemic, and in situations where there were so many uncontrollable factors. A lot of questions were asked in the Q&A section. (1) How can we tell an action is right or wrong? One question may seem like about decision making skills, but in depth, it is a question of the theory of truth, which has been asked for thousands of years of philosophy history. (2) How can philosophy not only provide abstract, formal answers to specific, urgent practices? How can we actually take a further step rather than just general theoretical advice such as "know how to think critically” and "know yourself"? Overcoming the abyss of theory and practice has always been the unified ’knowledge-practice” dream of philosophy. Philosophy, in fact, has made great strides in trying to answer this question with the Marxist theory of 'praxis' and the modern pragmatic maxim. Perhaps most people these days would agree: ideas must be tried out in reality and praxis is the criterion of truth.
  • INTERNAL TALK 17 - "IMPROVEMENT" IN "SELF-IMPROVEMENT" - LÊ VĂN CƯỜNG - Nov 29th, 2021
    30/ 11/ 2021
    What is "Tu" (improve)? Understanding "self-improvement" and objectives Mind-Body-Heart mechanism Significance and conclusion "Tu" (improve) is to repair, in the speaker's way of understanding about Buddhist practices. That is to repair our heart and perception. Emerson once said "Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny", which is similar to Buddhist Karma. The speaker understood "self-improvement" as improving our body, wisdom and mind. In terms of "body", we eat and rest in right way. We also have to observe our mind and are mindfulness of our three evils (desire-hate-delusion) and do not commit wrong actions. Cường completed his presentation by quoting a verse in Dhammapada: "Not to do any Evil, To do all Good, To Purify one's mind, This is the teaching of the Buddha."
  • INTERNAL TALK 16 - BUTTERFLY EFFECT - LÊ HÀ THỤC UYÊN - Nov 22nd, 2021
    23/ 11/ 2021
    For want of a nail the shoe was lost, For want of a shoe the horse was lost, For want of a horse the rider was lost, For want of a rider the battle was lost, For want of a battle the kingdom was lost, And all for the want of a horseshoe nail. - Benjamin Franklin Butterfly effect was first mentioned in 1972 by the meteorologist Edward Lorenz in a very famous sentence “A flap of butterfly's wings in Brazil can set off a tornado in Texas”. Lorenz discovered the effect when he observed runs of his  weather model with initial condition data that were rounded in a seemingly inconsequential manner: 0,506127 to 0,506. He noted that the weather model would fail to reproduce the results of runs with the unrounded initial condition data. A very small change in initial conditions had created a significantly different outcome. Edward Lorenz's work placed the concept of instability of the Earth's atmosphere onto a quantitative base and linked the concept of instability to the properties of large classes of dynamic systems which are undergoing nonlinear dynamics and deterministic chaos. The butterfly effect concept has since been used outside the context of weather science as a broad term for any situation where a small change is supposed to be the cause of larger consequences. It is used to mention about cause-effect or temporal paradox. Many historical events was attached to the name of this term: Hitler’s application being rejected by Academy of Fine Arts Vienna leaded to World War II is one example that some says the world would had been completely different if inversely he had passed and immersed in paintings. It is said that the contagion of pandemic is one kind of butterfly effect. In the 2004 movie The Butterfly Effect - Ashton Kutcher travels back in time, altering his troubled childhood in order to influence the present, though with dismal results. In communications, this metaphor is usually used as a meaningful message to positively motivate people that our every tiny good action matters. Reading reccommendation The part of the Other - Eric-Emmanuel Schmitt A very short introduction to Chaos - Leonard Smith Butterfly effect - Andy Andrews Nudge - Richard H. Thaler & Cass R. Sustein Getting Causes from Power - Stephen Mumford & Rani Lill Anjum Wholeness and the Implicate Order - David Bohm
  • INTERNAL TALK 15 - THEORY OF MULTIPLE INTELLIGENCES - HUỲNH DUY THANH - Nov 15th, 2021
    16/ 11/ 2021
    Theory of multiple intelligences was first outlined by Gardner his 1983 book Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences, where he suggested that all people have different kinds of "intelligences”. Originally in this book he proposed people have seven kinds of intelligences, and then added two more: naturalistic intelligence and existential intelligence. The original seven were: (1) Visual-Spatial Intelligence, (2) Linguistic-Verbal Intelligence, (3) Logical-Mathematical Intelligence, (4) Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence, (5) Musical Intelligence, (6) Interpersonal Intelligence, and (7) Intrapersonal Intelligence. While a person might be particularly strong in a specific area, such as musical intelligence, he or she most likely possesses a range of abilities. For example, an individual might be strong in verbal, musical, and naturalistic intelligence. The speaker highlighted, in primary school education, the importance of mathematics, language, and music which are correspondent to Logical-Mathematical Intelligence, Linguistic-Verbal Intelligence, and Musical Intelligence respectively. Other kinds of intelligence are not recognized and trained adequately in Vietnam perhaps due to lacking of well trained teachers and limited view of curriculum scope. In Q&A section, this theory was criticized of its too broad view of intelligence which also includes personality traits and abilities. As a result, it was harder to estimate a person intelligence than the traditional IQ test. Another question raised the similar technical point: how to measure a person‘s each kind of multiple intelligence individually and combine them into a single result? The last question seemed to be the one every audience want to know from practical point of view: how to improve a person‘s multiple intelligence. Perhaps there is no short cut to do so but a lot of training and efforts over years required.
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